Valentine’s Day after Trauma

Valentine's Day can be a difficult time for survivors of interpersonal violence. The emphasis on romance and intimacy can trigger painful memories and emotions.

Here are some tips for navigating Valentine's Day:

  • Acknowledge your feelings: It's okay to feel sad, angry, or anxious. Don't suppress your emotions.

  • Practice self-care: Engage in activities that bring you joy and comfort. This could include spending time in nature, listening to music, taking a warm bath, or reading a good book.

  • Limit exposure to triggering content: Avoid excessive exposure to romantic displays in the media.

  • Connect with your support system: Spend time with loved ones who understand and support you.

  • Remember your strength: You are resilient and have survived trauma. Celebrate your strength and courage.

If you are struggling, please reach out to a support hotline or a therapist. You don't have to go through this alone.

Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute professional medical advice.

Important Note: If you or someone you know is experiencing sexual violence, please reach out for help. Here are some resources:

Remember, you are not alone.

Mary Eldridge (she,ella) LCSW,LISW,LICSW

Mary Eldridge is a BIPOC trauma therapist with over 10 years of experience in the field of interpersonal violence. Mary is passionate about disrupting the dynamics of oppression and supporting victims and survivors in their journey to healing. Mary serves the states of IA, WA, and WI, with a special focus on cities like Cedar Rapids, Spokane Valley, and Madison. Reach out for support!

https://www.pathwaytohealingcs.org
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