Therapy for First Responders in Milwaukee, WI.
Online therapy all throughout the states of IA, WA, & WI.
This is your dream job, yet you question if you can do this the rest of your life?
Are you more irritable, & inpatient?
Too many ugly calls?
Issues at home?
Your career can take a toll on you; but I can help you so you can make it to retirement. Book a free consult!
100% confidential and separate from your work so you can get the help you need!
You've risked your life to help others, but having to be there during people’s worst days is taking a toll on you and your relationships.
The images, smells, and sounds just haunt your dreams and you can’t sleep so you drink. But you know it’s your career so you tell yourself “I have to be able to handle it on my own”.
You keep telling yourself “I have to be able to handle it” or “I need to be over it already”.
The weight of experiencing so much loss, the sense of helplessness, the fear, coupled with the exhaustion of being overworked, shift work, all-nighters, etc. all of it, can lead to feeling like you need a career change.
I can help you forget those images!
What if I told you that you are not the only one feeling like this?
In my experience working with first responders, this is a common experience that only few talk about. In sessions, I work to address these challenges and support your well-being.
Taking care of yourself is also a way of making sure you make it to retirement.
Remember to reach out and book your 15 minute free consult to discuss ways in which I can help with what you may be looking for!
Why Therapy for First Responders has to be Different
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Witnessing violence, death, injury, and human suffering on a regular basis. One of the things I hear the most are how they have to be there on people's worst days. One component about this factor is that these sort of events can have a cumulative toll. So for some individuals they are greatly impacted by one event especially based on a perceived connection to the victim(s); and some others are impacted by the multitude of events they have witnessed throughout their careers.
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Dealing with civilians' life-or-death situations as well as situations that may compromise their own safety, long hours, unpredictable schedules, potential conflict with co-workers who they already spend a lot of time with, internal politics, and the public's perception.
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Disrupting sleep patterns and circadian rhythms, leading to fatigue and increased stress, lack of power when choosing shifts due to seniority priority, being away from family and loved ones for prolonged periods of time causing disconnection, etc.
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Difficulty maintaining healthy relationships due to irregular work hours, the emotional burden of their work, feeling like civilians do not comprehend their work so their only social circles are composed of other first responders. That also leads to conversations that are typically about work even in settings that are removed from work.
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The challenges don’t only impact first responders, their loved ones also struggle.
Some may experience secondary trauma
Hypervigilance around their loved one’s safety and whether they will make it home or not after their shift is very common
Children may struggle from not seeing their family member regularly due to the shift work or working overtime due to staff shortages
Partners may feel like solo parents or like the responsibility of the housework is only on them
These factors can contribute to a higher risk of: Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, substance use, risk to self or others, etc. Here you can also read more about Compassion Fatigue in the Firefighting profession by the International Association of Fire Fighters (IAFF).
At this point in your career, you probably have already heard of Compassion Fatigue. This is the emotional and physical exhaustion experienced by individuals who work in helping professions, such as healthcare workers, social workers, and therapists. It results from the persistent exposure to the suffering and trauma of others. You can also follow this link to more information on the signs of Compassion Fatigue.
Signs of compassion fatigue can include:
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Feeling overwhelmed, helpless, or hopeless
Decreased empathy and compassion toward patients or peers
Irritability, anger, or cynicism
Sadness, anxiety, or depression
Emotional detachment or numbness
Difficulty sleeping or nightmares
Dreading going back to work on your next shift
Feeling like you never have enough time to restore
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Fatigue and exhaustion
Changes in appetite or weight
Headaches or other physical ailments
Increased susceptibility to illness
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Withdrawal from social activities
Isolation or self-medication
Decreased job satisfaction
Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
Neglect of self-care
Withdrawal from social circles and your support system
Remember, it's okay to not be okay. If you are struggling, please reach out for help. You are not alone. Again, feel free to schedule your 15 minute free consultation!
It's important to note that compassion fatigue is not the same as burnout. Burnout is a state of emotional, physical, and mental exhaustion caused by prolonged or excessive stress. While compassion fatigue can contribute to burnout, it is a distinct phenomenon that is specifically related to the emotional toll of helping others.
If you are experiencing signs of compassion fatigue, it is important to seek help. There are many resources available to help you cope with the emotional demands of your work. Some helpful strategies include:
Self Care for Compassion Fatigue
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Prioritize your physical and emotional health by getting enough sleep, eating healthy foods, and engaging in regular exercise.
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It's important to set limits on how much you take on and to learn to say no to requests that will overwhelm you.
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Talk to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist about how you're feeling.
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Make sure to take regular breaks from your work to rest and recharge.
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Mindfulness techniques can help you to stay present and grounded in the moment.
Remember, it's okay to not be okay. If you are struggling, please reach out for help. You are not alone. Again, feel free to schedule your 15 minute free consultation!
I am a BIPOC and bicultural Trauma Therapist who serves adult trauma survivors through all across the states of Iowa, Washington and Wisconsin through online trauma therapy in both English and Spanish.
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I know that shopping for a therapist isn’t an easy process. I like to think about it as finding the right pair of jeans, so if you are inclined to think that we may be a good fit, I’m more than happy to have a conversation with you and answer some of your questions before booking an appointment.
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Free
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If you’re ready to set up an initial consultation and start working with me. Typically, this session is a little more formal since we will go over your history and background as well as policies related to our therapeutic relationship.
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It’s a one time $200 fee
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These sessions are reserved for those who have already completed an initial consultation and have established care within the last 6 months.
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$130 per session