Internal Family Systems (IFS) Near You: A Powerful Approach to Online Trauma Therapy

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When it comes to trauma healing, finding the right therapeutic approach is essential. One highly effective and increasingly popular modality is Internal Family Systems (IFS). There’s a chance you may still have not heard about it, and if that is the case, in this post I dive deeper into what it entails. This evidence-based approach helps trauma survivors understand and heal the different “parts” of themselves that hold pain, fear, and protective mechanisms developed over time.

With the rise of online therapy, clients can now experience the benefits of IFS-based online trauma therapy from the comfort of their own homes. Whether combined with online EMDR or used as a stand-alone approach, IFS offers a profound way to reconnect with oneself and foster deep emotional healing.

What is Internal Family Systems (IFS)?

IFS is based on the idea that we all have different "parts" within us, each with its own thoughts, feelings, and roles. Some parts carry wounds from past experiences (exiled parts), while others take on protective roles to prevent further harm (managers and firefighters). I typically explain it as how we are not the same people at work as we are at home with our loved ones. Even though, in essence, we are the same person, we have to channel very different parts to ourselves depending on the context as what we need.

The goal of IFS therapy is to:
🌀 Identify and understand these inner parts. It also reminds us that every part of us has a good intention even if it’s causing harm to the system through different actions or beliefs.
🌀 Heal wounded parts rather than suppressing or fighting them.
🌀 Access the "Self," the core of who we are, which holds wisdom, compassion, and healing energy.

Instead of trying to “fix” trauma by pushing away painful emotions, IFS allows clients to gently approach their wounds with curiosity and care, leading to deeper integration and healing. Also, IFS creates room for us to notice when we are having negative reactions to a part of us and identify what that is connected to, specifically what other part of us is holding that reaction.

How IFS Supports Trauma Healing in Online Therapy

For trauma survivors, IFS provides a non-pathologizing, empowering framework to explore past wounds and current emotional struggles. In online trauma therapy, clients can use IFS techniques to navigate feelings of guilt, shame, anxiety, and self-doubt—common reactions to traumatic experiences.

Key benefits of IFS in online therapy include:
✅ A safe and structured way to explore trauma at your own pace.
✅ A compassionate approach that views all parts of you as valuable and with good intentions, rather than "problematic."
✅ Greater self-awareness and emotional regulation skills.
✅ The ability to integrate IFS with other trauma treatments, such as online EMDR.

Combining IFS with Online EMDR for Trauma Recovery

Many trauma therapists are now integrating IFS with online EMDR, creating a powerful healing combination. Online EMDR helps process traumatic memories by reducing their emotional intensity, while IFS helps clients develop a compassionate relationship with the parts of themselves that hold trauma.

Together, these approaches can:
🌀 Help clients safely process distressing memories without overwhelm.
🌀 Reduce internal conflict between different parts of the self.
🌀 Strengthen a client’s connection to their core Self, fostering long-term healing.

Finding an IFS Therapist Through Online Trauma Therapy

With online therapy, clients can now work with IFS-trained therapists regardless of location. This makes trauma-informed, holistic care more accessible than ever. If you’re seeking healing from past trauma and want a therapy approach that fosters self-compassion and inner harmony, IFS in online trauma therapy may be the right fit for you.

Whether used alone or alongside online EMDR, IFS offers a transformative path toward self-understanding, inner peace, and lasting trauma recovery. If you’re ready to begin your journey, consider reaching out to an IFS-informed therapist offering online therapy today.

If you're ready to embark on a journey of healing and personal transformation, I encourage you to reach out. I am passionate about trauma-informed care in all spaces as well as creating safety so you can process your experiences at your own pace. Please contact me to schedule a consultation and learn more about how online trauma therapy can help you achieve your goals.

I am dedicated to helping you create a life filled with greater joy, fulfillment, and resilience. Let's work together to start your healing journey.

Mary Eldridge (she,ella) LCSW,LISW,LICSW

Mary Eldridge is a BIPOC trauma therapist with over 10 years of experience in the field of interpersonal violence. Mary is passionate about disrupting the dynamics of oppression and supporting victims and survivors in their journey to healing. Mary serves the states of IA, WA, and WI, with a special focus on cities like Cedar Rapids, Spokane Valley, and Madison. Reach out for support!

https://www.pathwaytohealingcs.org
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